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Woodstock Man Charged In Teen Death Incident
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Could A Friend's Divorce Lead To Yours?
There was an article in the Huffington Post divorce section about how much a friend's divorce can affect your marriage. It is easy to think that divorce only affects the people directly involved it, but that is not entirely true. Anyone who is around you during the time of your divorce can be affected by it. It works the other way around too.
For example, your friend tells you she's getting a divorce. She and her husband have always seemed like the perfect couple, so the news surprises you. You are worried about how things will turn out for your friend and her children, so you start to reflect on your own relationship and the issues you have had in your marriage.
Especially, if your circle of friends has recently had many divorces, you might start to feel like you are inevitably headed for one too. This kind of an idea might eventually lead to a divorce if a person feels that all the signs are eminent in their own marriage.
Chicago Ridge Man Dies After Crashing Into Tree
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Child Custody and Gender Bias
There is a saying that justice is blind, yet that may not be the case for family law. Judges have a lot of opportunity for gender bias in divorce and child custody cases. Women are expected to be more nurturing due to their role in birthing and rearing children. That often translates to men having to spend more time, money and effort to prove that they are good parents as well.
In child custody cases, the court is required to decide for the best interests of the children. Back in the late 19th century there was a “Tender Years Doctrine” enacted to settle custody cases. It stated that for children that are 13 years old and younger, there best interests are served in the custody of their mothers. This has supposedly been changed for the more equal “Best Interests of the Child” doctrine, yet that change was only made in 1989.
Over Two Dozen Injured And At Least One Killed In Megabus Crash
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Dealing with Debt in a Divorce
In divorce proceedings many things are split between former spouses. Property, money, and children are things that ex-spouses have a tendency to fight about who will receive what. But whatever about things that aren’t so nice, such as debt. When you have agreed for better or for worse, you are responsible for some of the debt your spouse has acquired. To protect yourself from being responsible for an unfair amount of debt there are steps you can take.
Attaining your individual credit report is very important before you divorce your partner. All three credit bureaus will be able to tell you about you and your spouse’s credit activity. It may not be a pretty realization, but it will give you a touchstone for how much work is left to do. In the interest of re-establishing your own credit in only your name, open up an account (checking, savings, credit, or brokerage). This will be integral to the next stage in your life.
Cyclist Dies After Collision With Truck
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Chicago to pay $3.25 Million to Family of Girl Killed by Car
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Chicago to Compensate Family for Death of Daughter
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Divorce, Children, And Religion
Nowadays, it is not uncommon to get married to someone who does not share your religious views. This might, however, lead to serious disputes in case of a divorce. Numbers of interfaith marriages are increasing, and divorces are not becoming less common, so this is a topic worth discussing.
Last month, we posted about about Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes getting a divorce. It is common knowledge that Tom Cruise is a scientologist, and this fits perfectly to our topic.
Globalgrind reported a follow-up story on this celebrity divorce, saying Suri and Katie are now leaving scientology behind. According to the story, Katie has enrolled Suri in a private Catholic school, even though Tom wanted her to go to a scientology school. Fortunately, Tom and Katie have reached a settlement, putting Suri's happiness and education above their own preferences.