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State Trooper Killed During Traffic Stop on I-55
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When a Couple Divorces, What Happens to Their Business?
A recent New York Times article details the predicament that some couples find themselves in when they are operating a successful business together, but their personal relationship is headed toward a divorce. According to 2007 Census Bureau figures, about 3.7 million businesses in the United States are owned by a husband and wife. Given the high rate of divorce these days, this situation may be much more common than most people think.
The article goes on to describe the successful businesses that some spouses have continued to operate well after their divorce has been finalized, including a Connecticut law firm, an alfalfa growing business, and an accounting firm. While running a business together initially seemed ill-advised, awkward, and extremely difficult, these former spouses decided to repair their relationship at least to the extent that they could continue to do business together. While the road back to a successful business relationship was not always easy, the former spouses relied on open communication, consistency, and mutual respect to continue to work together and maintain their businesses.
Chicago Woman Arrested for Driving Drunk
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Having a Loving Divorce
According to the Southern Sun, there can be a divorce option that is not about betrayal or bad feelings, but can be loving. There are circumstances that can make a divorce better than most think would think. These may be a mutual divorce where the couple isn’t fighting about who gets what or where they both agree the marriage is over. While every divorce situation is unique, there are productive ways to deal with the process.
There are some ways to make a divorce not as hard on both parties. The most important thing is to talk about what each person wants and negotiate what each will get. This is important when creating a loving divorce instead of a fight.
Another thing you may want to consider is hiring a lawyer that understands that you have had a loving relationship with the spouse you had. This way they won’t be so hard with the negotiations of the pair.
Two-Vehicle Crash Causes Injuries and Death
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Dog Attacks and Kills Volunteer Firefighter in Kane County
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The Rising Trend in Divorce Coaches
With the rise of divorces, there was a pressing need for more help for the people going through a divorce. The term of “divorce coach” seems to have come from the same time of “life coach.” Around the 1990’s, Dr. Kim Lurie, who was a lawyer in Merrick, NY started calling herself a divorce coach. The term didn’t become mainstream in newspapers until the new millennium. That was when lawyers, psychotherapists, financial planners and other professionals creating a burgeoning field of new divorce coaches.
Now there are businesses which allow for a couple to meet with divorce coaches who specialize in different aspects of divorce, such as finances, co-parenting and moving on after a divorce. The important thing to remember about divorce coaches, although they usually have some training, they don’t take the place of a divorce attorney. Depending on your needs, different coaches can other different areas of expertise. But there are a select few things that you can expect from divorce coaches.
One, Two, Three, Red Light
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Woman Walking to Scene of Accident, Hit by Car
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Holidays and Custody
For many people, the holiday season means less stress and spending time with your family, but for divorced couples with children, it might be anything but easy. The same goes for separated parents who are considering divorce. Both parents, of course, want to spend the holidays with their children, but it is not usually possible after a divorce. The Huffington Post did a story about this issue for their divorce section.
For divorced parents, this is something they have to get used to for their children's sake. If a holiday without children is tough for a parent, a holiday without a parent is even harder for a child. This does not, however, mean that it is not possible to make new, happy holiday memories.
It is all a matter of planning ahead and communicating with the other parent, so that there are no misunderstandings. If a divorce has a high level of conflict, courts may decide where children will spend their holidays when custody is decided on.